From: Susan Irwin

Dear Christian Wife,

Are you struggling with your husband's lack of sexual desire?

You are not alone.

Thousands of other women are struggling with the same feelings of inadequacy, confusion and frustration that result from being in a marriage that is, essentially, sexless.

Fortunately, your present state of sexual frustration does not have to be permanent.

Like hundreds of other Christian women, you can learn how to help your husband to overcome low sexual desire and, finally, have the opportunity to experience frequent and fulfilling sex within your marriage.

Most importantly, you can do this relatively quickly, easily, and in a way that strengthens and improves your relationship with your husband.

If you will give me just a few moments, I will tell you exactly how you can do this, starting tonight.

As authors and relationship coaches, my husband, Robert, and I have had the opportunity to work with thousands of Christian married couples relative to their marriage and sexual relationships. Our books and seminars have helped these couples to experience marital sex as the positive, soul-bonding and healthy experience that God intended it to be.

But, recently, we have been overwhelmed with the same question from Christian women...

"What do I do if my husband is never interested in sex?"

If you are like these women...

You love your husband.

You enjoy being married.

You view sex as a wonderful, fun and God-blessed activity.

But, for some reason, your husband never seems sincerely interested in having sex with you...certainly not as often as you would like.

You may have feelings similar to the following:
 

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Do you recognize any of these women's frustration with the lack of frequent and fulfilling sex in their marriages?

Most of our work involves helping couples to improve their sexual skills, enjoyment and satisfaction. But, this issue of male low sex desire presents a unique challenge to couples (especially women)...

How can you have enjoyable, satisfying sex if your husband is never "in the mood?"

When a man expresses low sex desire, it is usually the result of a much larger, more complicated set of reasons and (or) problems. And, these issues or problems may (or may not) have anything to do with you (your weight, your age, your general attractiveness).

The solutions are not always obvious and intuitive. Most sex problems within a relationship, ultimately, have nothing to do with sex. This is especially true when it comes to male low sex desire. As much as you are frustrated with your lack of sex, your husband is most likely dealing with emotional, physical or psychological issues that are being expressed through his lack of interest in sex. No matter what he says to you, he is equally disappointed and frustrated with his lack of interest; a man's sense of self is deeply tied up in his ability to perform with you, sexually. Yet, nonetheless, he finds it difficult to show sufficient sexual interest.

No matter what the reasons for you husband's current lack of sexual desire, the end results are the same...

You feel physically, emotionally and psychologically frustrated. You can't help but feel personally rejected. When you do not have frequent, intimate and passionate love making within your marriage, you feel unloved and unwanted.

It is natural for you to feel this way. And it is as predictable as the sun rising in the morning for you to find yourself dealing with negative thoughts and emotions when you are dealing with this serious "gap" in your marriage. Like other women in your situation...

You may find yourself attracted to sinful outlets for your sexual needs such as pornography or excessive consumption of sexually related media (romance novels, soap operas, etc.).

You may begin seeking sexual satisfaction outside of your marriage through affairs (virtual or real).

You may start becoming "a different person" than you know you really are; more and more, you find yourself becoming "hard," "cold" or resentful - especially toward your husband.

You may find yourself losing motivation in other areas of your life. You ask yourself, "Why bother if I don't even have a 'normal' sex life with my husband?"

So, how can you help your husband to increase his sexual desire for you and increase the frequency and fulfillment of the sex in your marriage?

If you and your husband are both interested and committed to making the sex in your marriage everything that you dreamed it would be, everything else can be relatively easily fixed through a little bit of knowledge and "practice."

But, if your husband has no (or very little) interest in frequent sexual activity, you must take a very careful, sensitive and special approach to solving your problem.

Nagging will not work.

Begging will not work.

Trying to "give up on sex" will not work.

Losing weight, making more money, new makeup or clothing will probably not work.

Before you can help him to overcome his low sex desire, you need a  comprehensive list of possible causes for his low sex desire and proven, step-by-step, strategies for overcoming each potential cause.

You need a "game plan" for helping him to overcome his low sex desire. And, I have created that "game plan" for you. It is my new book, When Your Husband Is Never In The Mood.

As I was researching and writing this book, I received some negative feedback from a few colleagues in the Relationship Coaching profession. After reviewing my initial drafts, I was receiving comments like...

"Aren't you showing women how to manipulate their husbands?"

"Shouldn't you focus more on showing couples how positive sex can be within their marriage?"

"Why isn't this book directed more to the husbands?"

Although I understand (and appreciate) my friends' desire to promote the mutuality and relationship-positive aspects of this topic, I respectfully disagreed because...

My goal is to help those women that already love their husbands (dearly), love their marriage (except for its lack of sex) and need a "real world" set of strategies to (yes, on some level) "manipulate" their husbands into being more interested, sexually!

Don't misunderstand me. I am not talking about anything that is unethical, immoral or disrespectful to your husband (quite the opposite). But, your problem is fairly simple; your husband isn't interested enough in sex - YOU WANT MORE SEX - and you want to change that situation.

You don't need any platitudes; you need solutions...NOW.

And that is EXACTLY what you will find in When Your Husband Is Never In The Mood.

In this book, I have included only those strategies that we have found effective "in the real world" of our work with other Christian couples.

You will learn...

Every possible cause of your husband's low sex desire and their most effective solutions.

Step-by-step strategies for discovering EXACTLY which of these causes is creating his low sex desire.

Communication techniques for ensuring that you are no longer "beating your head against the wall" when you attempt to discuss his low   sex desire.

The tips, techniques and secrets that other wives have found most effective in re-igniting their husband's sexual passion.

The various ways in which YOU may be negatively affecting your husband's sexual desire for you - the factors that ONLY YOU can control - and what you can do to eliminate these issues.

The "relationship" strategies that can quickly turnaround a man's low sex desire.

Romance ideas that men actually appreciate (instead of dread).

The critical ways in which you and your husband are different, sexually and psychologically and how these differences can ignite or kill your sex life.

What most men crave, sexually. You just can not ignore these desires and expect a frequent, mutually-fulfilling sex life!

How to influence your husband to more highly value the sexual relationship within your marriage.

How to overcome his (or your) latent "Christian guilt" regarding uninhibited, passionate sex within your marriage.

How to create a "sexual environment" that most men will find almost impossible to ignore.

Special issues that "aging men" deal with and how you can eliminate their negative effects on your sexual life.

Here is what women are saying about When Your Husband Is Never In The Mood...
 

Isn't it time for you to start experiencing more (and more fulfilling) sex within your marriage?

If you are ready to learn the most effective and proven strategies for helping your husband to overcome his low sex desire, starting tonight, you need to give the techniques in When Your Husband Is Never In The Mood a try.

And, I am so confident that this book will be EXACTLY what you need to make dramatic changes in your relationship that I am willing to offer it to you...at MY risk.

If, for any reason, you are not absolutely convinced that this book will dramatically improve your chances of improving your married sex life, simply let me know and I will refund 100% of your investment. Plus, you can still keep the book.

I want to you to be the next woman that experiences dramatic improvements in her marriage and sexual relationship. So, I don't want you to have ANY reason not to (at least) give our proven strategies a try, TODAY.

This "100% Satisfaction" guarantee is unlimited and unconditional. After ordering, you can request a complete refund at any time - and for any reason. I don't want you to feel pressured to "make things happen" quickly. Dealing with your husband's low sex desire may not happen overnight - but it WILL happen!

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I could spend another few pages describing the powerful strategies that you will find in When Your Husband Is Never In The Mood...

There is no "fluff" in this book; it is packed with over 120 pages of (only) the most important, effective and proven strategies for "bringing back the sex" to your marriage.

But, if you are not motivated, right now, despite your current frustration and dissatisfaction, you may never be.

The ONLY reason I can imagine that you wouldn't immediately order your own copy is that you are concerned about the investment.

Isn't your marriage and sexual fulfillment worth the price of one trip to the movies?

You have NO RISK. If your married sex life is not dramatically improved, we will refund 100% of your investment.

You can only obtain a copy of this unique book here.

And, you did not find this web site by chance. You were meant to find the solutions to your current sexual frustration.